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Navigating the winter holidays during divorce

If you are in Texas and going through a divorce, the winter holidays do not have to be stressful for you and your children. Actually, they can become memorable if you plan ahead.

Being prepared

The winter holidays are stressful for a lot of people. And children especially can struggle during this period after witnessing their parents go through a divorce. Nonetheless, the upcoming holidays can be less stressful for you and your children if you consider the following matters:

  • It matters how old your kids are.
  • You should be prepared ahead of time.
  • The children should not be part of a loyalty bind.

During this period, you may wonder whether your children should spend certain days with their other parent. You may also wonder whether your children should decide on their own. Children, those who are 5 years old, for instance, tend to act based on emotions. Teenagers, in contrast, can be more reasonable. Thus, the latter may not mind sharing their days with their parents.

The divorce process is emotionally draining. And the holidays, because of their nature, can contribute to melancholy. So it is normal for your children to feel a sense of loss. Thus, it is important to validate their feelings during the holidays and to notify them of any new plans.

Often, parents who go through a divorce, especially during the holidays, begin to compete with one another. Naturally, parents want to please their children. But this can cause a child to fall for a loyalty bind.

Instead, you could include your children in the process. You could motivate your children to write letters or even provide gifts to your ex partner. Their active participation can numb their feelings of confusion.