Not all divorces are amicable, which can make things challenging for Texas parents who share custody. Those who have contentious or abusive histories have reason to be wary when doing a child custody exchange. These tips can help keep you safer when you have to exchange your child.
Document everything
If you feel unsafe when you do a child custody exchange, documenting everything gives you a trail of evidence in the event that something bad ever happens. Note all the details, including who was present during the exchange, whether there was danger and how a conflict was resolved.
Show up on time
Show up on time for the exchange. Being late could only aggravate your former spouse and lead to a fight once you arrive with your child. This could make for an ugly situation that your child doesn’t need to witness. Even if you’re only a few minutes late, it could turn into something much bigger if your split wasn’t amicable.
Choose a safe place
A safe, public place is best for dropping off your child or picking them up for parenting time. This could be in front of a place of worship, school, shopping center or even a police station. If there are a lot of people around, there’s less likelihood that your former spouse will start a fight.
Consider sending someone else
Sometimes, sending another person to pick up or drop off your child is best. If things are too tense between you and your former spouse, send a relative or friend instead. However, let them know ahead of time that someone is going in your place to avoid further conflict.
If domestic violence is a factor in your divorce, you might have to take further court action to change the original custody order.